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Vigil held for teen who attempted suicide

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sultan teen suicideSULTAN, Wash. — A 13-year-old boy who attempted suicide, remained in the hospital Sunday evening while close to 200 people held a  candlelight vigil that included teachers, students, friends, the school’s superintendent and the mayor.

For many who gathered Sunday, the vigil is a show of solidarity and support for Zack. Rather than try to place blame or focus on why Zack tried to take his life, the focus was on how this can be prevented in the future.

It was an overflow crowd at the Sultan gazebo as hundreds of people came to be part of a solution to the problem of hopelessness that often leads to suicide and attempted suicide.

“He used to say, all I want to do it be happy — it was hard for him. He usually acted like he was really happy, but then at some point when I was talking to him he would kind of break down about it,” said Zack’s best friend Emily Beach.

Beach knows Zack better than most.

She said he’s a vibrant, enthusiastic young man who likes to dye his hair and marched to the beat of his own drum and that he was a unique and very special person.

“Me and my friends just wished he had talked to us about it more because we would have tried to help him,” Beach said.

She said Zack has been bullied since grade school, but it has escalated in the past two years and she said she thinks the pressure became too much to bear.

“We need to get better at knowing what kids are dealing with, knowing how to help them and knowing when and how to intervene at the appropriate times,” Sultan School Superintendent Dan Chaplik said.

Chaplik said Zack has great relationships with teachers and staff and talked to them regularly, but never mentioned anything about bullying.

Parents said that kids suffering in silence is the problem and that communication is the solution because no one knows something is wrong unless someone speaks up.

“It’s OK to reach out for help.  It’s OK to talk to your parents about it. It’s OK to talk to the school about it,” parent Heather James said.

Fortunately, Zack is expected to recover and hopefully return to school soon — Beach said that can’t happen soon enough.

“Everyone misses him at school. It’s not the same without Zack,” she said.

Students here are being encouraged to talk. Talk to friends, parents, siblings, teachers, just talk to someone and let them know if there are problems and you need help.

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3 comments

  • jina100

    Suicide and even attempted suicide always leaves a wide path of destruction in its wake. Personal stories like this one help keep this social issue at the front of public awareness. I appreciate your efforts in this direction. I recently read an article that may be helpful to anyone who is himself at risk for suicide or who knows someone who is at risk. http://www.psychalive.org/2011/09/suicide-prevent

  • bmw16

    yes this is sad but here the thing this happen all the time so why is one boy any differnet why does he make the news when other don't? yes bullying is a big facter in this but here the thing if parent pay attation it could of stop there are ways to tell if a kid is sad and depressed. but again the biggest problem i see with this is that 1boy is making the news for trying to kill himself when teen and adult try this everyday and do they end up on the news no so what makes this boy so specail that he does nothing does. its very sad to see that he on the news when people try and do what he did very day yet you hear nothing about them. so i do not see the point of having a little kid who said well no likes me so i should kill myself should be on the nes. this just show how sad some people are that they will let there kids misfourten and use it for tv time BAD PARENTING.